Thursday, November 27, 2008

3 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend

an interesting cheating man article by cheating spouse expert, Michelle Hambrick.

Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend / 3 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend

So, you think your boyfriend may be cheating on you, but you are hesitant to confront him about it? It's okay, many women have been there. You want the truth, but at the same time, you afraid your suspicions may be wrong. The only thing to do is learn the signs of a cheating boyfriend, and then watch for those warnings. This will either confirm or dispel your thoughts. Read on for 3 of the signs you can look out for.

No Longer Has Time For You

If the two of you do not live together, it may be hard to catch him at home anymore. When you leave a message on his answering machine, he doesn't respond. He won't answer his cell phone either. When you finally get in touch when him, he brushes it all off with "I've been busy." This is a definite cause for concern...and may make you wonder what is all of a sudden occupying his time.

Begins Working Late...All the Time

This can be a tough one, because for some companies, mandatory overtime can happen on occasion. Don't worry though, because there are ways you can find out if he's really in the office. One of the easiest methods is to give him a call when he's supposed to be still at work.

Have something genuine to say, or it will look as if you are just checking up on him. If you happen to run into one of his co-workers, you may mention the long hours everyone's having to put in. You may be surprised when that person tells you no one works past 5pm.

Your Sex Life Greatly Changes

A significant increase or decrease in the amount of intimacy you two are having can be a sign of a cheating boyfriend. He may not seem interested at all, when before he wanted it all the time. Also, he may want to do it all the time, including trying many different techniques and positions. This can be normal, but if the sex has always been mediocre before, where do you think he's learning all of his new tricks??

Discovering the signs of a cheating boyfriend is easy to do once you know what to look out for. Don't jump to conclusions too early in the game, just in case you are wrong. Instead, sit back and collect evidence to support your accusations before confronting your man. Trust me, it will be much easier that way.

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Tuesday, September 02, 2008

7 telltales cheating signs

Do you see a sign of a cheating man?

7 Telltale Signs That Your Partner May Be Cheating and How to Solve Them by Dr Rajgopal. V

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There is nothing like an ideal marriage! Period. Blatant statement?? Think again. There are statistics to prove that 15% of wives and 25% of husbands have had sex outside marriage. If it includes emotional affairs or sexual intimacies without sex add a further 20% to these numbers. What are the warning signs that your partner may be cheating on you? What are the Solutions?

Are you confident that the element of cheating is not there in your married life? Think twice. If statistics are to be believed a high percentage of men and women are prone to be unfaithful to their respective partners. In most cases the partners just do not go out and cheat. There are telltale warning signs and paying attention to these signs can save a marriage from doom.

1. Crying out for help: The first and foremost warning is when a partner tells that something is amiss in the relationship and the other partner refuses to believe it. Statements like "I am not happy" or "This marriage is not working" is a clue. Solution: To save the marriage when such a situation arises open up a dialogue and if this does not work consider a couples therapy.

2. Sudden change or interest in appearance: Is your man keen on eliminating his wrinkles or getting rid of his fat? Or is your wife suddenly keen on coloring her hair or wearing a low-waist jeans? These are signs of prowling. Solution: If you are keen that this is just a change and no one else is involved, why not join in and spice up the relationship?

3. Unwarranted criticism: If your partner makes statements like "You need to see a psychiatrist", "You need to go to the gym", Get a job", "Lose weight" and is constantly critical to make you feel that you are worthless then this is a sure sign of something fishy. If your partner picks up a fight over something which you are good at then this is another sign. Solution: Listen and learn. Encourage the partner to talk more because the other partner will feel that you understand. If a man says "Those two women are good", encourage him to talk about them and limit his action to words.

4. Guilt gifts: Is your partner lavishing you with valuable gifts? Is it a diamond necklace, a sporty car or an expensive mink shawl? It might tempt you to think - "He just gifted me this expensive thing so he cannot be cheating". You will be fooled. Solution: Nip it in the bud. If you want to be successful in saving the relationship identify potential problems early and nip the problem in the bud. Do not turn the other cheek.

5. Getting snubbed at a company party. If the colleagues have an inkling about the extra-marital affair the chances are that you will get snubbed as you are "on the way out". Or you have been criticized by your partner to such an extent that people think you are worthless. Solution: Grab the bull by the horns. Without making any excuses, open up lines of communication and address the issue as soon as you notice anything unusual.

6. Sneaking. If your partner picks up a call from his or her cellphone and talks out of your earshot or if he or she goes missing out on various nights of the week this is a definite sign of cheating. Solution: Confrontation. Just be more assertive and ask "What's going on here?". If need be you can even check cellphone call logs to get definite proof.

7. History: As they say history repeats itself. If the person has a documented history that in itself can be a warning sign. Of course people change over time but you cannot ignore the past. Solution: Set boundaries. If you feel comfortable discuss with your partner about the limits that he or she can go in relationships outside of marriage.

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I am a medical doctor with a passion for writing. I love to write on subjects like sexuality, relationships and medicine.